Alexandra Roberts Blog https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/ Blog posts for Alexandra Roberts en-gb Alexandra Roberts Blog Copyright 2024 Reflections https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2021/10/reflections Put down your burdens awhile

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Wed, 20 Oct 2021 02:12:00 +1100 https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2021/10/reflections Relationships
Business Wise - Do You Know Who You're in Bed With? https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2021/10/business-wise-do-you-know-who-youre-in-bed-with How do you mediate between business partners? Just as couples go for couples counselling, sometimes it’s wise to bring in external help to assist with mediation between business partners.

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Wed, 20 Oct 2021 02:08:00 +1100 https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2021/10/business-wise-do-you-know-who-youre-in-bed-with Relationships
Personal Power https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2020/07/personal-power LIFE IS 10% HOW WE MAKE IT AND 90% HOW WE REACT TO IT.

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Wed, 22 Jul 2020 02:10:00 +1000 https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2020/07/personal-power Relationships
Relationship Breakdown https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2020/01/relationship-breakdown When a relationship breaks down generally all parties suffer. We have a tendency to believe it is only the person who didn’t instigate the breakup that is affecte

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Wed, 08 Jan 2020 04:03:00 +1100 https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2020/01/relationship-breakdown Relationships
Communication Matters! https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2020/01/communication-matters Whether a verbal communication with a loved one, or an email communication with a work colleague as outlined below, often our perceptions are framed by our feelings at the moment we receive the message and we may mistake the intention of the message.

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Wed, 08 Jan 2020 04:02:00 +1100 https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2020/01/communication-matters Relationships
Relationships - Blind Spots https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2020/01/relationships-blind-spots ‘When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves ‘ Viktor Frankel”

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Wed, 08 Jan 2020 04:01:00 +1100 https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2020/01/relationships-blind-spots Relationships
Are You Listening to Me? What Did You Say? Listening Skills https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2020/01/are-you-listening-to-me-what-did-you-say-listening-skills To quote Peter F Drucker “the most important thing in communication is to hear what isn’t being said”!

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Wed, 08 Jan 2020 04:00:00 +1100 https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2020/01/are-you-listening-to-me-what-did-you-say-listening-skills Relationships
Relationships - Good or Bad, We Choose! https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2020/01/relationships-good-or-bad-we-choose Boredom, familiarity, lack of connectedness or passion, whatever term we might want to use, may affect any relationship personal or professional. What might we do about it?

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Wed, 08 Jan 2020 03:59:00 +1100 https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2020/01/relationships-good-or-bad-we-choose Relationships
Relationships and Courtesy https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2020/01/relationships-and-courtesy Please… Thank you… Would you mind if… Excuse me…Can I help with that… Sorry… Etc.,

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Wed, 08 Jan 2020 03:58:00 +1100 https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2020/01/relationships-and-courtesy Relationships
Empathy in Relationships https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2020/01/empathy-in-relationships How do we deepen our relationships? Often we feel we are showing empathy to our partners when it might be we are expressing sympathy or compassion.

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Wed, 08 Jan 2020 03:57:00 +1100 https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2020/01/empathy-in-relationships Relationships
Expectations... Be Careful They Impact Our Lives https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2020/01/expectations-be-careful-they-impact-our-lives Christmas is promoted as a joyous occasion, bringing families and friends together to celebrate and for many this is true. Unfortunately there is often a shadow side to the light that is Christmas.

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Wed, 08 Jan 2020 03:51:00 +1100 https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2020/01/expectations-be-careful-they-impact-our-lives Relationships
How Do We Combat Ageism - Are We the Problem? https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2020/01/how-do-we-combat-ageism-are-we-the-problem Today there are many vibrant women and men of all ages. Very different to say sixty years ago.

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Wed, 08 Jan 2020 03:50:00 +1100 https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2020/01/how-do-we-combat-ageism-are-we-the-problem Relationships
Are You Happy? https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2020/01/are-you-happy Are you happy with the year so far? Are you reaching the goals/commitments set earlier, that is, if you set any!

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Wed, 08 Jan 2020 03:49:00 +1100 https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2020/01/are-you-happy Relationships
Attitudes are Contagious - Is Yours Worth Catching? https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2020/01/attitudes-are-contagious-is-yours-worth-catching It is a given that it takes twenty-one days for a new habit to form. However it may take years to replace an old habit. Why is this?

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Wed, 08 Jan 2020 03:48:00 +1100 https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2020/01/attitudes-are-contagious-is-yours-worth-catching Relationships
Breaking Boundaries - Mean What You Say and Say What You Mean https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2020/01/breaking-boundaries-mean-what-you-say-and-say-what-you-mean Boundaries are personal and may be very different to another person who is likely to come unstuck when they cross yours!

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Wed, 08 Jan 2020 03:45:00 +1100 https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2020/01/breaking-boundaries-mean-what-you-say-and-say-what-you-mean Relationships
How Do We Successfully Navigate The Process of Separation and Divorce? https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2020/01/how-do-we-successfully-navigate-the-process-of-separation-and-divorce The decision has been made, and the separation or divorce is now definite.  How do we handle this process?

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Wed, 08 Jan 2020 03:43:00 +1100 https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2020/01/how-do-we-successfully-navigate-the-process-of-separation-and-divorce Relationships
Foregiveness https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2019/12/foregiveness FORGIVENESS DOES NOT CHANGE THE PAST BUT IT DOES ENLARGE THE FUTURE. IN A WORLD WHERE YOU CAN BE ANYTHING...BE KIND

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Thu, 19 Dec 2019 03:08:00 +1100 https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2019/12/foregiveness Relationships
Glass Half Full; Glass Half Empty https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2019/12/glass-half-full-glass-half-empty Most of us have heard the above phrase and someone once said “well its only a glass of water!”  Is the latter that simple?  The phrase may be overused though the underlying message is important.

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Thu, 19 Dec 2019 03:07:00 +1100 https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2019/12/glass-half-full-glass-half-empty Relationships
Ex-Partner Communication https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2019/12/expartner-communication Two qualities to aim for when communicating with ex-partners are patience and wisdom – avoiding locking horns for the benefit of all involved.

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Thu, 19 Dec 2019 03:05:00 +1100 https://alexandrarobertscounselling.com.au/blog/2019/12/expartner-communication Relationships